Thursday, August 10, 2006 Y
Love journey begins since 17 April 2006 ♥
Enjoyable 2 days.
Today i met up with dear again. Hee. 3 days in the row met up with him. Regardless it's 5 mins, 1 hour or the whole entire day, i'm still happy as i get to see him. Hee. I went over to his house and meet him first, as he need to pack his backpack for army as well as get his room slight tidy up. After getting all those things done, we watched 综艺大哥大 featuring S.H.E, F.I.R and 许纯美. Haha. We watched till keep laughing and want to peng liao thanks to 许纯美 with those cannot make it words. Oops.
At about 1 plus, we left from his house and went to eat the most crafty animal meal at his house nearby coffee shop as i cant eat alot of other food, so we just have to eat 鱼片米粉. Haha. After eating, we went to "rob" the bank machine which we failed (if not i would have been rich), thus we set off from his house area to Great World City. We went to the cold storage to buy sweets and tibits for us to eat later at ks as well as when he's at camp so that he can eat too. From cold storage, we went to try "rob" the Great World bank machine (we dont seems to give up ya?! haha). But the machine also not working. Lolz. Dear just want to update his bank book but it seems all the machine just dont wish to work. Haha. As we were going to the timezone aracde, we dropped by at watsons and bought my asience shampoo to use. =) dear went to play his daytona where there's 3 youngsters looking at him play (guess they make him stress) and he also went to try time crisis 4 (the gun just sucks bad time) after i keep asking him to play as he actually wanted to play outrun. Hee.
Finished playing at arcade, we went to ks to find yu wei and some other commando friends (including one sergeant there playing too). *stunned* they played bowling for like 5 rounds each and whoever is the lowest, would have to do 20 pushed up (own time own target). His sergeant also very on as he also tekan pumping too. Hee. His sergeant has an athlete's figure - so nice.
Dear sent me off at Great World City to take cab home as he is booking in later so he cant be sending me back. Tomorrow he is booking out again! Yeah~ but i wont get to see him till another 13 days as next mon (14th) till another week of sat (26th) then he get to book out. Next week might be the worst days as he will be out at field camp, with no hp so i wont even get to hear from him. Haiz. Guess dear also dont wish to have this happening so i must be understanding and tolerate till another week on either mon or tue when he's back from field camp then he contact me ba! =]
On National Day, was my initial outbreak day, but dear had to meet his godsis, so we changed our date to 8th Aug instead (which i had already blogged. Haha). So i met up with the ah bang ah lek at tiong bahru. Having my sister to drive me over and meet up with them. Surprisingly, wen yang and daphne came too so i'm quite happy. We went griller for dinner though i cant eat any of the food other than fish and chip. =( but i drank a big cup of ice lemon tea and had some bites of ice cream from sharon's plate. Hee. Dear came over with his godsis just to get his hard disk from me. He saw me drinking and eating cold food and said that "昨天还吃不够啊？" =P dear left with his godsis after that and he actually sent his godsis back to toa payoh. Very nice of him. ^^ whereas for the ah bang ah lek gang, we went over to kor's place and chilled a while. Jy had to drive 2 rounds to get the gang over. Kor, sharon and i went over first before jm, gab, wy and daph came. But we waited for like i guess almost 1/2 hour to get them back at kor's place. So in the mean time, the 3 siblings had a chat, after for like months since we last sat down together. Jy had a slight scratch on his car but he told me his parents didnt scold him, so i guess parents should be prepared that scratches are unavoidable when their kids drove out ba. Choo was the last person to reach at kor's place but by the time she reached, i have to get back home le as my sis and my mum came to pick me up. I felt bad as i didnt really get to chill out with them for long so hopefully by the next meeting, we will get to chill out longer. In the mean time, just wait for me to get things plan ba. =]
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What is love?
Is love nothing more than happy familiarity?
Is love just a feeling of satisfaction or enjoyment?
Is love a moment suspended in time, when nothing else matters?
I think it was Warhol who said that mankind has always confused love with pleasure… but I wasn’t buying.
Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth. Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
Love isn't a feeling. Although real love is often accompanied by strong feelings, love does not equate with the sense of floating on clouds. Unlike the type of love that movies, television, and songs portray, people in love don't always feel ooey gooey around each other.
A relationship wouldn't last long on emotions. In fact, knowledge is the basis of a healthy relationship.
Knowing about the other person is key. Knowing about the person's personality and character are so important. One good test is to list the qualities that attract us to that guy or girl. If the list is long, we know a lot about them and like those things. If the list is short, we either don't know a lot about them or we know a lot but aren't attracted to his or her personality.
Love is a choice. It's a commitment. Although feelings will accompany love, and although sex will be a part of marriage, a lasting, healthy relationship cannot be based on these things.
Love
- Sees the other person's flaws and still loves them
- Wants to serve the other person; selfless
- Still spends time with others
- Takes time to build the relationship
- Other relationships and friendships grow stronger
- Trust and understanding results in less severe and less frequent jealousy
- Encompasses a long-term commitment
- Survives and sometimes is strengthened because of distance
- Quarrels are less serious and less often
- Quarrels can strengthen the relationship
Happiness is best @ 21:19
